April 1, 2009

Not Just A Girl

Since I can remember I have been told that girls cannot do the things men can do. I have been told when I’m sad or angry to stop being such a girl. I will not write who these people are. If there reading this, they’ll know. They’ll never fully understand what it feels like to not be good enough just because of the sex you were born, I would never want this passed down through my family. I want my kids, no matter what there sex to be told that they can do anything. That the saying, if you put your mind to it, you can do anything, Is very true. I would never want to make them feel held back for any reason.
In 2007 I worked with Justin doing miscellaneous jobs. Some days we’d move people in and out of there homes and apartments. Other days wed be doing clean outs picking up peoples junk. I am not exaggerating when I say that every job I went to my sexuality was pointed out. Told that I shouldn’t be lifting heavy objects because I am a girl. It was hard to walk up to customers of ours and stand next to Justin while he said, “Were here to move you today” Because those people look at you like your weak because your female. Many times Id be carrying a piece of furniture and men would walk up off the street and take it out of my hands assuming I needed there help. There were times when people would compliment me, say that I impressed them. I will always remember what one man said to me. After a long hard move he shook my hand and said, “You put some men I know to shame” What meant the most to me is that he shook my hand before shaking Justin’s. Now I work with Justin doing home remodeling. This too is not easy. Usually the home owner will not speak with me. They’ll talk straight to Justin. Usually ignore that I am there. Like I'm Justin’s little helper never his coworker.
Struggling with this all my life has made me appreciate the brave strong women who have come before me. I believe women still have to fight for equal rights and that there will always be sexist people but I know every day that goes by there is less of them. To the ones who make me feel this way, I’m not mad. If there were not people like you there would not be women like me, but for the women destined to come into your lives, I suggest you tell them that they can do anything and that there feelings are not a side effect from being a girl. That everyone has feelings even you.
                                                

Close Minded

We watched this episode of trading spouses. It's a show where two families switch moms for a while. One mom was Christian, the other believed in astrology. The point of the show is to put people into a different life style then they are use to. There supposed to learn about other ways of life and to teach people about there's. The lady who was Christian preached to the family about her religion. She tried very hard to make the family believe in Jesus and the Christian religion. When the father of that family tried teaching her of there religion, astrology she wanted nothing to do with it. She was already convinced it was wrong to believe what they believe. Without even knowing what astrology is about? That lady had no problem preaching to that family and everyone else about her religion, but when it came time for her to learn, she wouldn't even listen. She'd yell and scream about how it was wrong, how they needed to find god and how shell prey for them. The family that she was living with even went to church with her and listened to her when she spoke. She did not respect them in return. That bothers me. I believe if you think its right to preach your religion onto other people, you should be willing to listen to other people's religions as well. The catholic lady was so close mined. The way she acted, the way she was so cold and judgmental towards the family for believing in what they believe in made me not want to listen to anything she had to say. The other family was considerate and kind towards the lady. Those are the kinds of people id like listening to, no matter what there religion.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bOpva_iit-8

Does Myspace Think Im Fat?

I can't help to notice that there are countless weight loss adds on my space. How did it come to be such a big deal to be skinny? So many people go on diets for the way they look. I think people should want to eat healthy foods for their health to ensure a long life. Not just to lose weight or to fit into there "skinny" jeans like allot of these ads encourage. These adds tell people to take this little pill, and not to question or even care what these pills could do to you other than make you lose weight. They want you to feel hopeless and overweight and they don't want to suggest exercising and eating whole grains, fruits and vegetables because then you wouldn't buy there products. I bet the people profiting from these companies wouldn't even swallow their own pill. Instead they probably hire nutritionists and lose weight the healthy way. So they live longer, feel better, with your money in there pocket. While YOU grow a beak on your butt from the side effects of their little pills. I now believe if you care enough for yourself you'd want to eat what your body needs to be healthy. I've always been insecure about my weight and over the years I've realized why. This society puts commercials, TV shows, magazines and much more in our faces which makes you think you should look a certain way from an early age. I believed it all once. Now I just want to be healthy. I've tried to learn to love myself over the past couple of years. Why should I sit here and think to myself, oh if only I had a slender tummy, when there are some people out there that wish that they have what I do. Why should we wish for more? If someone always dreamt of being taller and they grew 12 inches, then would they wish they for bigger feet? I think you should learn to love yourself now, the way you are and then you'll be able to love yourself
          

Random Things About Me


  • I have a rare eye disease called Stargardts. I am legally blind.
    This started in 5th grade. My disease went undiagnosed for 6 years.
    Some people tought I was making my bad vision up for attention.
    School was hard for me because I couldnt see the books or board and had no explanation why.
    My mom was there for me through all those hard times.
    I worry that I wont be able to see people I know.
    My family is the most important thing to me. There all so great.
    I often feel spoiled for having such a great life.
    I believe that Confidence is a very important thing to have.
    I am a firm believer in equal rights for all.
    I can't drive due to my vision.
    I try to buy things second hand instead of brandnew.
    I believe that you are what you eat. If you feel like crap your probably eating it.
    I go for natural cures rather than medicines
    I don’t agree with any form of sexism.
    I boycott Walmart KFC and Taco bell .
    I don’t think people need to be religious to be good people
    I am compulsive about my house being organized
    I believe that you shouldn’t hesitate to question authority.
    I think the best way to become a better person is to change
    I try to not get sucked into the media and believe everything I see and hear
    I think that if you believe that there’s no hope there won’t be
    I want to always be open to other people s opinions especially about myself.
    I quit my art class when I was a kid because my teacher said I wasnt doing it her way.
    I believe that art should always be your way.
    When I was little my dad always made sure all of our weekends were fun.
    All of my favorite childhood moments are all shared with my brother Jon.
    Growing up with my brother makes me want more than one child.
    Instead of saying why me, I try to think about how lucky I am to have what I have.
    I want to believe that I am beautiful no matter what.
    Every night I wish for everyone to live long, happy, healthy lives.
    My brother and I saw a guy get struck by lighting when we were young
    I am scared of lighting
    My idols growing up were my big sister Kim and my big brother Scott.
    Putting my dog Shadow to sleep was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do.
    I have crazy dreams every night, usually about trying to save people or animals.
    When I first met Justin I didnt like him.
    Justin and I have never spent a day apart.
    Family-in-laws are one of the greatest things ever.
    Im afraid of spiders
    I did homeschooling 10th-12th grade
    I once donated my pony tail to Locks of Love. .
    I wish that get togethers didnt have to be centerd around high fat sugary foods.
    I always wonder where the birthday cake tradition came from.
    Id rather have something healthier for my brithday so I can make it to the next one.
    I like to do things the way I like instead of the way everyone else does.
    One day Id like to run a self esteem group
    I once worked as a Kindergarten and Preschool teacher
    My cousin Tallas was a green beret and fought on toughman shows.
    Tallas was wrongfully shot and killed by a S.Carolina police officer.
    I think my best quality is my open mindedness
    I found out I was pregnant August 5 2009
    Justin and I believe in non-elecctronic toys to encourage creativity and knowledge.
    We want to learn about many holidays so we can celebrate them with our child